What do you do when others talk about your devices in public?
A mama asked me this and I wanted to share my response. "My daughter was getting her face painted and I overheard a little girl ask her mom what was on my daughter's head (cochlear implant processors). I wasn't sure if I should tell them or since my daughter didn't hear, should I have told her "They're asking about your CIs?"
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As a kid, I'm sure this happened often without my knowing. Sometimes I did know and shrunk back, pretending to be oblivious. Other times I remember tucking my hair back behind my ears to show my hearing aids off, as if I 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥 them to ask me directly. Most days I was a very social child and I'd simply say "Hearing aids, they help me hear better!" Anything said with confidence and carefree attitude was usually received pretty well.
Over the years, especially after I became an audiologist, I gained confidence and invited the conversation. I added color to my devices via @Skinit, @gearforears and colorful @microsonic_earmolds.
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Nine days out of ten my hair is pulled back because it falls into my eyes as I use an otoscope. I’m also a mama so at home I’m always chasing or holding a little human with sticky hands!
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If I see an inquisitive look on someone's face or see them staring - I'll smile, say hello or make a comment so that they might feel comfortable enough to ask.
On our first date my husband asked me about my job. I told him what I did and talked about what cochlear implants were.I took his hand and had him feel the bump of the implant under my skin. I even showed him the silliest magic trick of "now you see it, now you don't" with my soda bottle cap on my coil. 🤣
What have you guys done? Do you go up to someone you see with hearing devices?